tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6314830652572335072.post2192571468933025281..comments2023-10-29T05:38:48.052-07:00Comments on From Another Mother: From a conversation yesterdayValeriehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01486231371981196899noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6314830652572335072.post-8533072638226013132009-11-17T16:50:28.409-08:002009-11-17T16:50:28.409-08:00I agree with you that closed adoptions are the wor...I agree with you that closed adoptions are the worst. The unanswered questions are almost too much to deal with. However, the lost of being the parent is pretty high on my list too. I would have a hard time selling adoption to some girl if I am going to base it on open adoption, because while I do think that it's the best way to go, but in most states they are not legally binding. Adoptive parents can say yea.. I agree to pictures and letter and visits and back out. Now maybe most keep their end of the agreement, but sadly some don't. I personally never have been in the place to advice someone to parent or choose adoption. I guess that's a good thing.birthmothertalkshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17690158739622745922noreply@blogger.com